can anyone explain why people lament "why are you doing this to me god" or say "god wouldnt' let that happen" even though his stepping in would kill free will. My free will lets me break your legs with a baseball bat or steal or rob or rape. What did the victim do to deserve what my free will let me do? If there is a god, the religion is wrong about what he's all about. He's either a controller or an ignorer. He can't be both.