This is what i was looking for; you have to call the API in Form_Load and then not on a Timer, like i was looking for, then so
Code:
Public VBInstance As VBIDE.VBE
Public Connect As Connect
'
Private Declare Function SetWindowPos Lib "USER32" (ByVal hWnd As Long, ByVal hWndInsertAfter As Long, ByVal X As Long, y, ByVal cx As Long, ByVal cy As Long, ByVal wFlags As Long) As Long
Private Const HWND_TOPMOST = -1
Private Const HWND_NOTOPMOST = -2
Private Const SWP_NOMOVE = &H2
Private Const SWP_NOSIZE = &H1
Private Const TOPMOST_FLAGS = SWP_NOMOVE Or SWP_NOSIZE
'
Option Explicit

Public Sub MakeTopMost(hWnd As Long)
On Error Resume Next

    SetWindowPos hWnd, HWND_TOPMOST, 0, 0, 0, 0, TOPMOST_FLAGS
End Sub
Public Sub Form_Load()
On Error Resume Next

    SetWindowPos hWnd, HWND_TOPMOST, 0, 0, 0, 0, TOPMOST_FLAGS
End Sub