I meant when you open your form do something like this eg in in a button click:

vb Code:
  1. Private Sub Button_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button.Click
  2.         Dim x As New frmYours
  3.         AddHandler x.FormClosed, AddressOf frmYours_FormClosed
  4.         x.Show()
  5. End Sub

and have another sub within the calling form that looks something like this:

vb Code:
  1. Private Sub frmYours_FormClosed(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.Windows.Forms.FormClosedEventArgs)
  2.  
  3.         RefreshList()
  4. End Sub