Ever had a stalker or psycho ex??

[Memnoch1207]

Just curious if anyone on here has ever had an experience with a stalker or a psycho ex who wouldn't leave them alone...

and is it stalking if they're really in love with you??

[sevenhalo]

My psycho ex wasn't the ex, it was her mom. She didn't want me dating her daughter and threatened to send people to my apartment. They were part italian, but how connected can you be if your last name's Miller?

and is it stalking if they're really in love with you??

No, then it's just an unhealthy obsession; which is worse.

[oceanebelle]

Yeah I did... when i broke up with ex more than a year ago, he did the following and then some:

1. Sent a threat that he will jump over the bridge and other suicidal tactics.
2. Disguised as somebody else and initiated a text, under pretense of a textmate.
3. Waited at my usual stop even if it was already midnight. (so i had to change stops)
4. Told people we were still together despite everything, and told imaginary "plans".
5. Cried a thousand rivers.. he said.
6. Got wild and drunk and kicked and punched the house or my mom's retail store.

Thankfully, after a year, all of this stopped. I was lucky to be assigned away from the country, because at one point I had thought of hiding in one of my friend's house.

Quite an ordeal.


Then another, a suitor.
1. He brought gifts of anything to give to me whenever he sees me (so I had to hide a lot)
2. He would wait outside the house for hours (so sometimes i get stuck in the house for a long time, sometimes days)
3. He'd ask for me from everyone I know. :S

Quite, uhm, unnerving to be always in the run and hiding. I felt like I was a criminal. that went on for like a few months

edit:
Oh and I almost forgot that guy from the airport who was basically stalking.
I swear I lost my temper then, and it's not easy for me to lose temper to other people unless they are my annoying siblings.

Him and I met while i was getting my student driver's license, about one week before I took my last flight to japan. Back then he kept asking details. Usually I am ok with conversations as long as they are never anything aggressive, i thought it was a friendly chitchat.

I told him, that he did not ask for my details because i will be leaving the country soon and gave him the day (just to get him off the idea), which was my downfall. Apparently he worked at the airport with access to ALL parts of the airport except inside the plane itself. He told me he will be there to send me off.

A week later during my scheduled flight date, with disguise on (just in case he did show up), I Went to the airport, deliberately late so that there will be other people as well. and VOILA, he was already chatting with my friend who was coming with me to Japan. So all cover was blown off. He told me he "heard" my name mentioned.

So family was left outside, while he "escorted" us. Oh he would carry my luggage, but he would let my friend carry her luggage herself (yeah he offered but just out necessity).

When we had problems with our papers (me and my friend), he was still bugging me and tried to get me alone in his presense, because the whole time my friend was there, and i was not even talking to him because i was already quite visibly pissed off and showing it.

So I practically shouted at him to just stop following me nor trying to get a hold of my luggage. That was pretty bad. At least i was able to get a hold of my temper enough not to kill him right then and there.

[demotivater]

Had one, no. Been one, yes.

[Jacob Roman]

My ex was crazy enough to (in the end of our relationship, not during) gold dig me, steal from me, rob me, lie to me, and cheat on me. Worse of all, turn lesbo on me.

[MartinLiss]

Aren't all ex's psycho?

[crptcblade]

None of my ex's have ever lived long enough afterwards to stalk me. *sigh of relief*

[RobDog888]

Aren't all ex's psycho?

Oh how true!

[mar_zim]

My ex was crazy enough to (in the end of our relationship, not during) gold dig me, steal from me, rob me, lie to me, and cheat on me. Worse of all, turn lesbo on me.

You're a psycho.

[RobDog888]

Worse of all, turn lesbo on me.

We all know you turned her that way

Ps, use the SpellChecker™ to fix your spelling and grammer.

[hairball]

Had one, no. Been one, yes.

the world is full of us... bwahahahahahahahaha

[oceanebelle]

Does anyone of you think that if I become a stalker, that person I am stalking will hate me? Or he'd want me to stop?

What if I was? What if I am? What if I will?

be a stalker?

[crptcblade]

Does anyone of you think that if I become a stalker, that person I am stalking will hate me? Or he'd want me to stop?

What if I was? What if I am? What if I will?

be a stalker?

Start stalking me and I'll let you know.

[oceanebelle]

Start stalking me and I'll let you know.

First you gotta tell me about details ALL should be disclosed, i'm bad at research that's why...

a stalker should know all details, even the teeny tiny ones.

[mar_zim]

First you gotta tell me about details ALL should be disclosed, i'm bad at research that's why...

a stalker should know all details, even the teeny tiny ones.

I give you one.


He's a boring person.


Next...

[mendhak]

In the future, there won't be a need for weapons. Wars will be fought by sending thousands of stalkers to the enemy country.

[oceanebelle]

I'll become a fighting machine then LOLz.

[mendhak]

JR would be a birth-control measure, prevening populations from propagating.

[RobDog888]

At least until the female population found a way to regenerate without the the need of males.

it will all be JRs flault.

[oceanebelle]

LOlz!

[mar_zim]

At least until the female population found a way to regenerate without the the need of males.

it will all be JRs flault.

Now burn your spellchecker man.

[sevenhalo]

[Memnoch1207]

You know...they say being persistent pays off and what is a stalker if not the embodiment of persistence.

A stalker is the epitome of dedication, loyalty and persistence.

I say these are highly valued traits in humans and I suggested we start cloning them!

[wossname]

I was considering becoming a stalker, but I have flat feet.

[Shaggy Hiker]

A good motto:

Too Lazy to Stalk.

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[mendhak]

I prefer storking.

I know where you live.

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[mendhak]

Get your arse on MSN.

I hope you enjoyed it.

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I hope you enjoyed it.

I did

[hairball]

First you gotta tell me about details ALL should be disclosed, i'm bad at research that's why...

a stalker should know all details, even the teeny tiny ones.

you can do that without being obvious. it's called social engineering but i guess you suck at it and perhaps fell for it bwahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha

[Jacob Roman]

Nobody will stalk me.

[Valleysboy1978]

Not if you keep turning them

[Jacob Roman]

Check that... I'm being stalked by my current gf.

[oceanebelle]

the green frog face attached to my phone is getting dirty. it's missing one eye though.