Badly thought-through flash intro pages are definately a no-no. Why, other than 'it looks cool', does everyone bother with flash intro pages? It doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

Much as I love the gothic lifestyle and look, at least try to have a bit of colour in it. It breaks up the sharpness.

The whole look and feel says to me "Boo hoo hoo, I'm depressed" or "Look how cool this dark gothic thing I have here is." Neither of which will help you in finding a new job.