thanks powdir
im gonna give this a go first because basically i need to show something working by mid next week,
then i can let it run and go into more depth in the application and continue development

one thing i just want to make sure,
this net send will be on a web app, so therefore it shall be on the internet,
does this possible solution apply to the internet,

all your help has been much appreicated and has given me ideas of how to resolve my problems ( as first i was starting off to refresh page)