I've used VS.net and can confirm with Cander. My set up is pretty much the same as yours Klienma. Development Machine and Server were on different Boxes. Actually mine was a bit trickier cause my SQL Server and IIS 5.0 where also on seperate machines (have to set up security a little different here).

I'll I did was set create my aspx pages on my develoment machine and then when I was done just copied everything in the folder (sub folders and all) to the IIS 5.0 Server hard disk. Went into the IIS setup and created a Virtual Directory.

That's all it takes.