I want to make my application look very cool...

Basically what I want to do:
1: Modify the window borders & caption (etc....), so they look cool
2: Make my context menus / Menu strips / tool strip menu items, look really cool
3: Modify the way my buttons look when I hold my mouse over them / click them...
4: Is any of this possible :P (for me, hah)

2 is the most important to me though, I have a lot of those things... and I want to make them look really good, like for example:
when you hold your mouse over a Menu Strip Item, it turns a really nice orange with a border, and the same over Tool Strip Menu Items... I am wondering how to change these? etc... so they look awesome

Thanks