[2005] Get listbox item that was right clicked?

[cptHotkeys]

Hi, does anyone know how to get which item in a listbox was just right clicked, I need the index not the string as there are duplicates and I need to reference a corresponding item in a list(of string) at the same (by index, not value)...
I would like to be able to select an Item with right click too...
At the moment all I can do is find which button was pressed in a mouse event using

If e.button = mousebuttons.right then
    'Now here is the problem
    dim i as integer
    'i should = lstbox.selectedindex
Elseif e.button = mousebuttons.left then
End if

Also, after setting multi select (I tried both versions) and selecting / highlighting multiple files, a for each loop does not use all selected items?
Does anyone know why this would happen, my code is simple, I use shift and click to select multiple files... and use a loop like below in a context menu button, could this be because i right click after selecting items?

for each i as integer in listbox1.selectedIndicies
    'Not all items I highlighted are coming through...
    'This makes me think that a highlighted Item is not nececarily selected.
    'Is there some othre methods availabe for this? (finding highlited items)
    'This is for removing items from the list...
next

One more thing, I am about to implement drag and drop in a list view for the first time (no other controls involved, just letting the user reorder the list items) and any advice would be greatly appreciated...

Thanks in advance...

Documentation didnt help and neither did big G.