Need a hand with XML, please [RSLVD]

[invitro]

Allright this is an easy one for all who have worked much with XML. I understand the structure, I think.. but I'm having issues with the syntax. I tried sniffing around this forum with no luck. The examples don't have what I'm looking for, are too complex, or I am generaly blind.

I have a file such as this one called Commands.xml

<FUNCTIONS>
<COMMAND>
 <WHOIS>
  <NAME Tag="Max">That is me</NAME> 
 </WHOIS>
</COMMAND>

All I want to do, is create a domDocument (done) and read the first element.. which is COMMAND. After that, I want to cycle through all the children of COMMAND incase there are more NAME elements.

My code:

'This is a type I have created
Private Type xmlCommandTree

    docFile As New DOMDocument30
    docParent As IXMLDOMElement
    docCommand As IXMLDOMElement
    docName As IXMLDOMElement
    

End Type
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'Actuall function

   Dim xCommand As xmlCommandTree
    With xCommand
    
        .docFile.Load "\commands.xml"
        Set .docCommand = .docFile.firstChild
        Set .docParent = .docCommand.firstChild

        'Here I would put in a loop that cycles through all the children
        'However, when I run this piece of code it sais:
        'Object variable or With Block not set - Whats that mean?

  End With

Can someone give me a hand before all my hair turns gray.
Thanks