Accecing a row in a dataset through a datagrid[RESOLVED]

[onis]

Hi, I posted this early on the wrong forum, so....
Ok here we go:
I have this xml (shortned)
<Avsyning>
<model>Membran</model>
<length>0</length>
<ANGLE>
<Pos>44</Pos>
<Neg>22</Neg>
</ANGLE>
</Avsyning>
This is read to bounded to a datagrid with
datagrid1.SetDataBinding(dSet, "avsyning")

No dataview is used (should I?)
Now I want to (in run time) delete a row in the dataset.

dataset1.Tables("Avsyning").Rows.RemoveAt(datagrid.currentrowIndex)

This will delete the wrong row if i sort the datagrid1. The rowIndex is the current row in the datagrid, but to get the row in the dataset what todo? I think a have a solution but it only works if the user don't navigate down to a child (datagrid.currentRowIndex has the value of the index for the parent row... Not the child row. Feels realy strange to me!).

Thanks for (any) help!

edit: Tried to explane some more