Dont you have evening or even lunchtimes :confused:
Printable View
Dont you have evening or even lunchtimes :confused:
You mean like when niether of us are working?Quote:
Posted by BodwadUK
Dont you have evening or even lunchtimes :confused:
Well she works day times at her other job and only has Sunday, Tuesday & Friday daytimes off (but as its a rotar she's now working on Sundays too. As for at my place she works nights all apart from Tuesday, Wedensday & Friday (I work on Friday Nights though). As you see that doesn't leave much time :(.
ask her out for lunch on Tuesday or Friday :confused:
The lunch thing I've left for her to pick another date for seen as though I don't know her rotar exactly :(. We will probably talk about it tomorrow at work, everyone will finish at 1am apart from me and her will finish at 3am so we have 2 hours alone (not sure I/we want the people at work knowing), we will talk while they are there but probably not about going out ;).
2 hours gives loads of time to clean up afterwards :lol: :lol:
Oh yes sorry you were being serious :lol:
I knew you'd say that but there is another person who'll be in the other office so can't even if we wanted ;). And the room we are in has cameras (which have a live feed to the office the other person is is :lol:). Mind I just found out yestaday that I'll be getting to be in charge of the whole office on Sunday Nights which means I get the office with no cameras :D, and she works that shift too :D.
(They probably have hidden cameras for that kinda thing though :lol:)
The blackmail will only cost £50 a month. Could be considered worth it :D
JUST ASK HER OUT PROPERLY BEFORE SHE GOES FOR SOMEBODY ELSE :D :D
Yeah man - just ask her out. Tell her shes the woman of your dreams and want to get to know her better. Actually don't sound too wrapped up in her - you might scare her off :D
ok ok, Tomorrow night I'll see how things are and may do, bet I'll end up she just wanting to be friends or something and then it'll have made work from then on awkward :(.
At least then you'll know and won't be beating around the bush like a crazy dog.
I do it every day. Beating bushes is not fun. With all this talk of conservation nobody realises getting to the bush roots to pee gets harder and harder as they grow :lol:
Looks like he might be bashing bishops.
If she refuses to go out with you (which she won't! :) :) ), wear a goaltender's mask, hold a chainsaw in your left hand, and ask her for her phone number. :)
:mad: :grh: :mad:
:( Not a good day :(
???
Before I explain I am going to see how tomorrow goes.....
:mad: :mad:
:thumb:
So the rest of the guys don't get to know what happend before an other 12-13 hours..:)...I feel so privileged...:D
:cry: - I am so offended he didn't come and discuss it with aunty Visual first.
Well it looks like HeMan has a new uncle...and even when I was drunk last night (BTW feels like I am still drunk :sick: ) I provided better help for him then you do....well I must admitt that I can't remember what he said or what I said...but I like to think that I helped...:D
How would you know whether or not I would provide better help. I've never helped anyone in my life :DQuote:
Originally posted by NoteMe
Well it looks like HeMan has a new uncle...and even when I was drunk last night (BTW feels like I am still drunk :sick: ) I provided better help for him then you do....well I must admitt that I can't remember what he said or what I said...but I like to think that I helped...:D
Thats what I thought, so I just figgured that I provided better help...;)...I am the master shrink of CCF....crowned by my self....:D
You still post in CCF? - I havn't been there in ages. When I went there were about four users who replied to all the posts. :p
I said I was still drunk...well yes I am still the king over there...but I actualy ment Chit Chat at VBF...:D...thats how drunk I feel right now...
BTW you should check out the new chick over there....calling her self puppet...she is looking kind of nice to be a geek...;)
Scrool down here...she has posted 5-6 pictures...:D
http://www.chitchatforums.com/forums...p?t=577&page=5
She is quite nice -where she from. If she's from the UK - I might start posting there again :D
Yeah she is from the Uk.....well...no....Nevada...but it isn't that far away is it...:D
Nevada? As in the US Derset thingy?Quote:
Posted by NoteMe
Yeah she is from the Uk.....well...no....Nevada...but it isn't that far away is it...:D
I didn't see any post by a "Puppet" on that page, I also checked a few ahead too. Have you chnaged the default posts per page for CCF?
BTW I'm off to work now and will let you lot know whats up when I get back ;).
Not in the derset ...the desert,.,,:)....and I think there is some sort of city there...but I don't know much about Nevada....and I am glad I don't...Quote:
Originally posted by Electroman
Nevada? As in the US Derset thingy?
I didn't see any post by a "Puppet" on that page, I also checked a few ahead too. Have you chnaged the default posts per page for CCF?
BTW I'm off to work now and will let you lot know whats up when I get back ;).
Well maybe I have changed it....it starts on post 166...and goes on for about 10 posts or so....hope you can have a look at it when you get home then....and hope everything works out with your DW later on tonight...;)...looking forward to hear what is going on with you two...
The grand canyon lives in Nevada. I would love to go antd see that.
How can Grand Canyon live some where...is it suddenly breathing now? Thats impressive...yeah I would like to see it breath too...
You silly puppet - I bet you don't even know how old the grand canyon is. A lot older than you. You should show it some repsect.
Beef eater geese will kill you for that :mad:
Well it can be as old as it will....after all we are all just made of old star dust farts.....so I guess I somehow is as old as the Grand Canyon....;)
Well yestaday (Saturday) she didn't seem to be talkign to me, I couldn't figure out if I'd said something wrong or something like that. The other possibility was because the other women that work that shift she was just wanting to talk to more than me (that sounds worse than I mean but I can't think of the words).
Also one of the other women I just mentioned her daughter has a crush on me (admitted by her & her mother to me) and my manager had pretended I gave her a rose (he actually got this rose thats been in the office a while and told her it was from me). This happened before she got there and went she arrived she was gave a vage idea of what went on and seemed to blank me from then :eek: :(.
But today we talked ok but I am started to think this ain't gonna turn into anything but friends :(. And then as the night went on (22:30, see this thread) I messed up the work and ran very late, I tried some things to try and make best I could do and I don't think she aproved of my "methods". I explained to her at the end of the shift (as she gave me a lift home) why I had done those "methods" and she seemed to be ok with them. The thing is just the way we have talked recently doesn't feel like there is much there for her, like at times we get on great but at others not so much. I think i will give her some space and get to know her more, she is the type of women that likes to know people first and I would like to know her more anyway. It would kill me if she went out with someone else though :(.
P.S. She also had to put up with a lot of flack on the phone tonight becuase of me and that won't score me many brownie points :(.
P.P.S. When I am just saying "methods" I don't mean really bad things just I think its better I didn't publicly say what, I can justify all the things I did though.
I don't think you can justify them,.....as you can justiify writing "she was gave"...:D
It is hard for us to tell you if it is bad or good to let her have some space, but one think is sure. It is never fun to work togheter with ther person you are with. If you have ups (it's great) but when the downs are comming then it is harder to go to work then any other time, and things like what happen at work today can happen again. And as you said, she won't like you any more because of those things. And if you where togheter with her, and you went home with her tonight it would have been still hanging over you two all night, and it wouldn't have been much fun.
And yeah I can see why it would kill you if she started dating an other person now. But as you said your self, she is the kind of girl that likes to know a person before anything happens, so that will at least give you some time.....and if it doesn't, then you have been wrong about this girl from the start, so maybe she wasn't the girl you though she was...but don't let us walk that road yet....she isn't dating anyone else, so there is still time for some Paul loving...:D
As for the "she was gave" change the "went" before it to "when" and it should make more sense ;). I really can't think straight I have such a headache :(.Quote:
Posted by NoteMe
I don't think you can justify them,.....as you can justiify writing "she was gave"...:D
It is hard for us to tell you if it is bad or good to let her have some space, but one think is sure. It is never fun to work togheter with ther person you are with. If you have ups (it's great) but when the downs are comming then it is harder to go to work then any other time, and things like what happen at work today can happen again. And as you said, she won't like you any more because of those things. And if you where togheter with her, and you went home with her tonight it would have been still hanging over you two all night, and it wouldn't have been much fun.
And yeah I can see why it would kill you if she started dating an other person now. But as you said your self, she is the kind of girl that likes to know a person before anything happens, so that will at least give you some time.....and if it doesn't, then you have been wrong about this girl from the start, so maybe she wasn't the girl you though she was...but don't let us walk that road yet....she isn't dating anyone else, so there is still time for some Paul loving...:D
As for the going home together after something like that I don't think it would be that bad, we were able to laugh (Kinda) about it on the way back and be glad it was over. I think it would have been alot worse if we wernt able to talk about it afterwards.
Good point with the getting to know someone else first, however that doesn't help me if she starts to talk to someone from her past ;). Anyway I don't want to think about that.
I think on the way home was the best we talked all night so all I can say is :unsure:, my head is really screwed up right now.
Well there is a medicin for that kind of headacke you know...;)....it is called beer....lots of beer....or booze or anything like that will probably work...:D...I have used it as a medicin for a long time, and it always works...
I've taken some Paracetamol since getting home but its had no effect as of yet :(. I think this is more stress than anything. I don't think I have any booze in the house, I gotta buy some again still :(. Mind I don't think it would have a quick enough effect, I must make sure I have I keep some aftershock in the house from now on.
When things go wrong they don't by half do they :mad:.
At work I almost started smoking again when everything was going wrong, I think the only reason I didn't was cos I didn't have the time :sick:.
Heheh...don't start to smoke...I hate smokers...:D...and BTW I don't think it is so smart to blend booze and Paracet...;)....it makes the alcohol effect you stronger, and it can realy make you ****ed up...trust me...don't try it,...:D
Well I don't have booze in the house anyway, thats why I went for the Paracetamol instead ;). I wonder if my boss will be wanting an explaination off me tomorrow or if he'll wait till I work with him next (Friday). I am happy to explain what went on tomorrow as I'll probably rememebr better than on friday :sick:.
If he does it it would probably be better if he asked you tomorrow. That way you would totaly get it out of your head too..so you don't have to go around wondering what that talk will be like...but maybe he won't ask at all...at least you can hope...
Smoking is the quickest and cheapest way to relieve tension and get your mind thinking straight again. And I'm not just saying that because I advocate smoking so much, any smoker will agree with me here. :)
It's OK that you're giving her space, but don't give too much, or you'll just be "an acquaintance."
Don't worry about screw up's at work, as long as everyone is still alive you'll be fine. After all we are still human ;) I've made some real bad cock-ups at work and so I have seen the managers make them too.
On one partuicular morning at 7am the manager was testing the swimming pool drown alarms, this involves sticking a piece of plastic inside it to set it off breifly. However, in his dazed hangover from the night before, he did the fire alram. We had to evacuate the entire building in the frezzing cold winter and wait for two fire engines and a chemical response unit to come out and confirm its safe to go back in. By the time we got back in most of the swimmers had died of hypothermia :lol:
:lol: :lol:
Laugh at him for the rest of his life :D (VisualAd Manager)
Offer her a drink as an apology. Not a date just a friendly drink. Give you the oportunity to talk to :)
Give her one rose for ever call she had to take because of your screw up...:D
haha, that would be alot of roses.Quote:
Posted by NoteMe
Give her one rose for ever call she had to take because of your screw up...:D
But it would work :lol:
Don't you have the money for it...:D..just kidding...well let her hit you in the stomack the number of times she had to take a phone call then....always worked for one of my X-GFs...;)
Its not the money I'm bothered about, its carrying them :).
Yea I think I'll settle for promising tonight will be better :D.
Looking forward to hear how it works out with you, your boss, and your DW"
Threesome. :)
Nothing is sweeter then that...but I must admitt that I like 2 girls and me better then one girl and EMans boss...;)
As for DW2 it went ok, she weren't bothered about last night that much, I can just say things were better than they had been on Saturday but I still don't reckon there is gonna be a future for us, no matter how much I'd like that :(.
As for how it went with my boss I'll let you know in the other thread about me being fired.....
P.S. I had an offer for a date tonight too, one of the drivers had phoned me and the 3 girls in the car could hear me and said I sounded nice. The driver had been telling me about a big puddle on the coast road an the car infront of him spun out in it. I then sent a message out and he phoned back and told me they were asking all about me. They were gonna phone back bout 2:00 - 3:00 to speak to me but I finished at 1:00 so DW2 could give me a lift home :D. I now think I should have stayed back :(. They were 19 also, the driver came in later and told me she was hot too (the one in the front and was wanting to see me). :lol:
I'm now kicking myself :(.
Yea a threesome would be no good with two guys, must be two lasses for me :D :lol: :D.Quote:
Posted by NoteMe
Nothing is sweeter then that...but I must admitt that I like 2 girls and me better then one girl and EMans boss...;)
Ohhh I am number 1000 to read in this thread. Can't remember what I was going to write....well...ohhh...never give up on a DW...;)
OMG, my dad picked up those girls from the town :eek:.....and they were telling him they wanted to marry me and stuff and then my dad told them that that would make him their father-in-law :lol:.
The thing is DW2 was the one who took the booking and they had asked her to speak to me (which I heard her say my name, but didn't realise it really was them) but she would let them :(. I hadn't realised that they got the taxi home just before me leaving work. They were asking my dad for my email address or something but he doesn't remember it (if he even knows it). I can get their phone number off the computer at work, the Question is now: Should I?
The thing is the job to pick those girls up I forced on my dad too without realising it was them, I was doing it cos my dad had another no job and I wanted to make up for it by giving a good job. Turned out a good job for me too I suppose :afrog: :lol:
lol, I just had a thought, there was 3 girls too, weren't we just taling about 3somes, looks like it just turned into a 4some :lol:
This is the funniest....:D...so why didn't DW2 want them to talk to you...;)....maybe she likes you...well it sounds realy intresting to meet them,....maybe you can have them all on the same time...but if DW2 finds out that you are seeing them she will dissapear into the night for ever...so before you do so you should think through what you can lose with doing that..;)
Like me last week.....;)....except two of the girls ended up in one bed and there was only one left for me...:(....Quote:
Originally posted by Electroman
lol, I just had a thought, there was 3 girls too, weren't we just taling about 3somes, looks like it just turned into a 4some :lol:
Sending them a text message wouldn't hurt, would it? :D.
Well I went though to where DW2 is and asked if she just said my name and she denied it but I'm sure I heard her say it (and she was definitly taking the booking for those girls at that time cos I had to force it on my dad so remembered it exactly). I then asked if it was anything to do with the phone call cos I thought the way i had asked may have sounded like i thought she shouted for me but she denied it then too.
I had thought I was being paranoid at the time cos the driver (first one) told me she would be asking to speak to me when she rang back. And I thought it was too early then too.
Funny how quick things have changed from really bad to rather good :D. Mind i now have to make a choice :(.
Life is always a choice....and the good/bad think is that there is no wrong or right answer. It is always many many solution....and you can never be sure if it is the right one...at least not befor you try...I say...send them an SMS..:D