It's really frustrating, but my wife and I have made our decision and we need to stick with it.
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It's really frustrating, but my wife and I have made our decision and we need to stick with it.
Sucky but it sounds like it was the right decision. Family comes first and if you were able to find this opportunity you'll be able to find another.Quote:
It's really frustrating, but my wife and I have made our decision and we need to stick with it.
I remember when I first finished my degree and was trying to get into work. It was in the early 2000s and programming was in a bit of a slump so work was hard to find. I took a job using a proprietary language 50 miles from home (Southampton). I eventually moved closer to the job which made me unhappy because I missed my support network and I knew it was a dead end because of the proprietary language (although I did like the people, they were good folk). After a year and a half I ended up moving even further away for the only .Net job I could land which turned out to be a complete disaster. The boss turned out to be a complete psycho (and I don't just mean the usual shouty type of boss - this guy waved guns around) and they had no real work for me to do. I canned it after a month by which time I was massively depressed. I ended up dragging my sorry ass back to Southampton and getting the only job I could doing navision development which is yet another career cul de sac. That and the next job were pretty sucky but I was able to cope because I had my freinds and family around me. I finally managed to land a VB6 job with a company I really liked who were just up the road and that finally got me pointed in a direction I could start building a career out of.
Moral of the story, getting your career started can be hard, even with a degree, and you're likely going to have to swallow a load of crap in the early days but persistance and a bit of luck will get you there eventually. And your freinds and family are more important than any given role because there will be multiple roles but only one family.
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Agreed.
But I needed that.
Here is a trophy.
He was number 1!
Sounds more like you are the one tootin.
Im at work. Bored. Help.
Ha! Not at work today...
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A little chilly, but definitely NOT bored.
It's been a little chilly the past day and a half here too. The high's have been in the upper 60s and the low's have been in the mid 40s.