We really don't know what is going on.
I have read a lot about Schroedinger's (?spelling) cat. I only claim to understand a little of what they said.
Last Post is correct. We really don't know what is going in the Quantum World. The Hotshots in this field have some equations that work. They can say "If you perform such and such experiment, your instruments will indicate Blah, Blah, Blah"
If you ask for an interpretation of what is "really happening," they either admit to not knowing or make unintelligble (to us) statements.
A pretty bright guy once said something like "If Quantum objects acted anything like classical objects, we could
make large scale models and see what is really happening."
Our mental concepts are conditioned by 100,00 or more years of evolution with classical world experiences. This has resulted in "hard-wired" concepts in our minds. The Quantum world is so weird that we cannot visualize what is happening there.
Consider that mathematicians can provide all sorts of theorems & formulae relating to objects in 4 or more dimensions. They can compute distances, areas, volumes, hypervolumes, and provide various theorems. For example, in 100 dimensions, a one inch hypercube has a diagonal 10 inches long. Can you or anybody you know visualize what the corner of a 4-dimensional hypercube looks like? If you think you can (I doubt it), then try for visualizing the corner of a 5-dimensional hypercube. Those corners are among the simplist, most fundamental objects in extra-dimension spaces.
Similarly, we just cannot visualize what Quantum World objects look like, how they interact, et cetera.