Trust me.....he can be quite disturbing:rolleyes:
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Trust me.....he can be quite disturbing:rolleyes:
Humanly impossible. IMHOQuote:
Originally posted by Lemon Lime
yes, sex is important, BUT i want answers ONLY about love, OK?
To love is to admire and value highly. Love is something earned, not something mystical which happens.
I have heard about so called agape love. There are people who say that it is easy to love somebody that is attractive, intelligent, kind, generous, et cetera. True love is when you love somebody who is a hopeless mess and can do nothing for you. People who believe this are crazy, but variations on this theme seem to be widespread beliefs.
The person (usually a woman) who loves some worthless twit has a mental ilness, not an emotion.
Every time I hear the song "Just MY Bill," I get ill.
Come on, you can't mention things like this and expect us NOT to get on to sex? Go anywhere in Chit Chat and you get it rammed down your throat... :eek:Quote:
for you guys that want to speak about sex, just do it somewhere else, ok?
err.........so to speak :rolleyes:
speak for yourself! :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally posted by parksie
rammed down your throat... :eek:
Something earned... so this means some people don't deserve it? Like me perhaps...Quote:
Originally posted by Guv
To love is to admire and value highly. Love is something earned, not something mystical which happens.
Maybe love is mathmatically undefined...
Was wondering what the reaction would be...what self-respecting guy wouldn't want to shove it down someone's throat?Quote:
Originally posted by denniswrenn
speak for yourself! :rolleyes:
I find that last comment hard to swallow.Quote:
Originally posted by parksie
Was wondering what the reaction would be...what self-respecting guy wouldn't want to shove it down someone's throat?
SD
That's not what you said.... you said rammed down your throat, not you ramming it down someone elses throat...Quote:
Originally posted by parksie
Was wondering what the reaction would be...what self-respecting guy wouldn't want to shove it down someone's throat?
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Read it from my point of view...if someone comes here we ram it down their throat.Quote:
Originally posted by denniswrenn
That's not what you said.... you said rammed down your throat, not you ramming it down someone elses throat...
Ahh, I see now..
Seriously folks, I think love is not telling your girlfreind that her little sisters a better ride because you don't want to hurt her feelings.
And people say that I'm shallow! Ha, I'll show them
SD
Sorry Lemon, but the first thing that rushes to my mind is... Love means you are willing to never have sex again.Quote:
Originally posted by Lemon Lime
LISTEN UP!!!
enough with sextalking
no1 cares about it!
i meant LOVE!!!
yes, sex is important, BUT i want answers ONLY about love, OK?
for you guys that want to speak about sex, just do it somewhere else, ok?
i got the idea, and i think i would add SEX in one of the categories of the poll, ok?
'Course, that may just be marriage or monogamy, but I'm getting married out of love, and because I'm getting married, I won't be having much sex. Apply the transitive property, and violà.
'Course, if I think about my writing... Love is creating that which defines you?
*shrug*
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Originally posted by CiberTHuG
because I'm getting married, I won't be having much sex
I've been with my husband for over 20 years....will be married 20 years in October and we are still going strong!:p
Given the number of sex related comments on this thread I would have to say that most people disgree with your definition of love and beleive the two to be intertwined;)Quote:
Originally posted by Lemon Lime
LISTEN UP!!!
enough with sextalking
no1 cares about it!
i meant LOVE!!!
But surely thats what this thread is about and we've nailed it. Because you do not find it too your taste;) does not make it any less of a valid point.
For instance:
Say a man regularly beats his wife up, and she stays with him (not through fear, but because she loves him). Isn't that one of the ultimate expressions of love, yet it is not very palatable.
A heroin junky loves Heroin. He'll do anything for it.
A stalker "loves" the woman he rapes and kills, because he is so obsessed with her he can't let her be with anyone else.
All are definitions of love, where do you draw the line.
SD
Uhm... yeah... and I beat you don't weigh 120 some odd pounds more than me.Quote:
Originally posted by barrk
:confused:
I've been with my husband for over 20 years....will be married 20 years in October and we are still going strong!:p
I doubt it as I only weigh 112:rolleyes:
exactly...Quote:
Originally posted by barrk
I doubt it as I only weigh 112:rolleyes:
But, I love her... even though...
- We are having the wedding in her church. I'm agnostic so to me, the ceremony doesn't mean much. What does mean a lot to me is the legal paper work which is done in a back room after the ceremony as we walk out, and the fact that we are doing this in front of everyone we know. But hey, I just bought a georgous $7K ring. I'm already doing all of this infront of everybody. The ceremony is just an excuse to party.
- Planning for the wedding just causes arguements, so I'm not saying anything else. This is no longer 'our' wedding, but hers. I'm sure that it is always that way, but boy howdy, what a let down. They only day that I get to do anything important, and I don't share the stage, I'm just a prop on her stage.
- We will live in Durham. I hate Durham, it is at least 45 minutes from my friends and it is Durham, the 'hood of the Triangle. Honestly, this isn't that big a loss, since I spend my week on the road it is more important to be nearer her job.
- She wants to put the microwave next to the stove, eating up one of the few counter spaces in the kitchen. There is a huge strip of negative space next to the fridge that we can't reach to use for food prep, but it will hold a microwave just fine.
- She won't clean the litter box.
I love her so much that I help her with her attempts to loose weight, and I'm keeping quiet with the fact that it isn't going to accomplish anything. But at least we get to spend time together. Now that the weather is nice, I want to learn how to skate, and we are wanting to get some bicycles.
Goodreams saidI do not know about you, but yes, some people do not deserve to be loved.Quote:
Something earned... so this means some people don't deserve it? Like me perhaps...
SurfDemon saidYes, and pedophiles love little children. The above is irrational abnormal behavior. People who behave that way are neurotic, psychotic, or evil.Quote:
Say a man regularly beats his wife up, and she stays with him (not through fear, but because she loves him). Isn't that one of the ultimate expressions of love, yet it is not very palatable.
A heroin junky loves Heroin. He'll do anything for it.
A stalker "loves" the woman he rapes and kills, because he is so obsessed with her he can't let her be with anyone else.
All are definitions of love, where do you draw the line.
I draw the line at behavior which is damaging to physical health and a sense of being happy or feeling good about oneself. The physical damage part is easy to define. I admit the other part of my point of view is murky.
Behavior which damages physical health or allows it to happen to oneself is abnormal, irrational, evil, neurotic, psychotic, et cetera. I do not care if an entire culture believes in such behavior, it is still evil, psychotic, et cetera.
There were cultures that sacrificed the best and brightest teens on altars to some pagan god. There might be some valid argument for the Spartans who allowed sick or weak newborns to die of neglect, but killing the best and the brightest has got to be insane, because it is contrary to the long term survival of the culture. Of course in their perverted viewpoint, only the best and the brightest were good enough for god.
I have heard people say that it was normal behavior because that was the norm established by that culture. I say bulls**t! Normal for a culture can still be evil and psychotic by a higher standard. I am not referring to a god centered higher power, but a sense of what is logical, rational behavior for a human being.
Euh... just curious how many kilograms are a pound?
Just to have an idea...
one kilogram is 2.2046 pounds
Meow...Quote:
Originally posted by Guv
Goodreams saidI do not know about you, but yes, some people do not deserve to be loved.
I'm only seventeen. I think I deserve a bit, at least to die happy...
I always thought that sacrificing virgins was a great move by the guys. I mean to say, every girl in town is going to be banging away like a screen door in a storm so that nobody mistakes her for a virgin.Quote:
Originally posted by Guv
There were cultures that sacrificed the best and brightest teens on altars to some pagan god. There might be some valid argument for the Spartans who allowed sick or weak newborns to die of neglect, but killing the best and the brightest has got to be insane, because it is contrary to the long term survival of the culture. Of course in their perverted viewpoint, only the best and the brightest were good enough for god.
Pure genius. In fact, I think we should bring it back!
SD
Ok. With my calculations a weight 132.2772 pounds, not bad.:p
It depends on how tall you are.
5.741452 foot
Let me guess, Katie, you are 5'1"?
Nope....5'3" :p 112 lbs...my turn ons are....oh wait...wrong forum :rolleyes:
*rotfl*
That's it, tease the marrying man.
"Dead man walking! Ooo... phone call. Sorry... wrong number."
I did forget to mention that I'm 42 and happily married though.....so not much of a tease after all :rolleyes:
42 and married? Well... I won't act on being teased because you are married, but 42? heh... that doesn't mean anything.
:)
42??? Now which measurement is THAT? :p
first of all, it is quite correct that the culture can effect human actions, and people would do things that might seems as non rational to us...Quote:
Originally posted by Guv
I have heard people say that it was normal behavior because that was the norm established by that culture. I say bulls**t! Normal for a culture can still be evil and psychotic by a higher standard. I am not referring to a god centered higher power, but a sense of what is logical, rational behavior for a human being.
secondly, this thread is about love, and not height, weight or nothing else.
it seems that u all lost the main idea of this thread.
please GET TO THE POINT
I still want to get answers about LOVE
for example, i have recieved a private massage which sais
THIS IS THE TYPE OF ANSWERS I'D LIKE TO RECIEVE!!!Quote:
"Love is that emotion in which someone else's happyness is essential to your own"
OK?
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Originally posted by parksie
Go anywhere in Chit Chat and you get it rammed down your throat... :eek:
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WHAT THE **** DO YOU WANT?
Lemon Lime, I don't know what kind of an idiot you are, but if you already know the answers to your survey, why bother asking us? Perhaps next time you will preface your inquiry with "only respond if you are going to say what I would've said."
actually, i saw that some people have sent some nice answers.Quote:
Originally posted by CiberTHuG
Lemon Lime, I don't know what kind of an idiot you are, but if you already know the answers to your survey, why bother asking us? Perhaps next time you will preface your inquiry with "only respond if you are going to say what I would've said."
you can look at the beginnging of the thread and see a lot of non sex-related anwsers.
The main idea of this thread is to get ansers about love...
It's obvious that sex related answers would be given, and I have seen it comeing...
DO ME A FAVORE
GIVE NICE ANSWERS TO MY POLL...
10Q all
Obviously something other than you ;)Quote:
Originally posted by Lemon Lime
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WHAT THE **** DO YOU WANT?
Look, it was a joke. You know, humour?