can i update database column through listbox data?

Code:

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Dim conn As SqlCeConnection = Nothing
        Try
            conn = New SqlCeConnection("Data Source=" & userSpecifiedPath)
            conn.Open()
            Dim cmd As SqlCeCommand = conn.CreateCommand()
            Dim dAdp As SqlCeDataAdapter = New SqlCeDataAdapter()
            Dim ds As New DataSet

            cmd.CommandText = String.Format("UPDATE TABLE SET NUMBER = '{0}' WHERE '{1}' = '{2}'", zero, ListBox3.Items, DATE)
            dAdp.UpdateCommand = cmd
            cmd.ExecuteNonQuery()

        Catch ex As Exception
        Finally
            conn.Close()
        End Try

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i want to update the column(number) where listbox3.items is equal to date.

Code:

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cmd.CommandText = String.Format("UPDATE TABLE SET NUMBER = '{0}' WHERE '{1}' = '{2}'", zero, ListBox3.Items, DATE)

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This obviously doesn't make any sense. You can match a selected item, or a specifically indexed item, but you cant match all the items as a collection.

can i insert the listbox items in a selected column in database ?