Using JS to Stop Flash Payer?

I'm using swfobject to embed a flash player (FFMp3) on my page. I also have a link to open the player in a small pop-up window. The thing is that I want the flash player to stop playing when the user clicks the pop-up link.

I've tried using many different methods but none of them worked. I saw object callbacks on the website for FFMp3 and enabled those. I found that when the user clicks the stop button on the player, it sends "stop" as the event and "0" as the variable.

How might I send "stop,0" to the object using javascript?

from the looks of their website (which doesn't say much, to be honest), all they support is event callbacks (eg. when an event is triggered, it calls a JavaScript function). it doesn't support you actually sending events to the player from JavaScript.