Windows Media Player

I'm trying to create a Media player that will work on an extended desktop. I learned how to put windows media player on a form and disable the controls.
That's about all I know how to do. I am a newbie as of today. I did put an open command button and have access to open different files. How do I put buttons that allow for play, pause, rewind, fast forward, and etc. Also how do I make the player maximize with the form? is it possible to detect a 2nd monitor and automatically switch over and maximize? Any help would be appreciated. This is for my church.