Conection database over internet

Situation:
i have a server who having public IP, and i put there a website. My website have another onother computer for database location and use private IP. my Database use mysql.

My problem
i want my program (write in vb) conect to database over internet. Can you help me ?

Thanks

It's possible, but ONLY if the server with the database is publicly available over the internet, has a public IP, and isn't behind a firewall. Otherwise, you're outta luck.

-tg