OLE Container Focus problem

I am using the intrinsic OLE container to imbed and display an excell spreadsheet. Once it has loaded I am activating it with
OLE1.DoVerb vbOLEShow, which allows the user to add info. So far this works. The problem occurs when the user clicks my "Save" button.

All this does is de-activate the OLE container. Focus is lost, even on the Form. It takes another click on the "Save" button to give it Focus and perform the save routine.

Does anyone know how to handle this?

Thank you.