Hello please help me with winsock TCP

Hello can anyone help me please ?

Sorry maybe my english is not 100% good, but i'll try to explain the problem i have:

My TCP Connection works fine on the day but before it getting to get dark/ night the Packet: Recived stop's and i restart's my PC and the Packet: Recived has only "3" while the Packet: Sent has maybe: 39 581

I have tried to disable firewall, antivirus, i have tried with anything it does not worked, also my IP-address has changed but still it works now on the day but i think tonight again it will happend :(
Ip right now is: 192.168.0.116 and this Ip i did not hade it before.

If anyone could help me with this problem i would be very happy.
here is a screenshot what i meant that the Packet: Recived is on 3 Highest.
Right now its on 29 617 because it works now, on the day but tonight if it does not work and i try to restart then it show only on 3.
http://img92.imageshack.us/img92/512...shot0039om.jpg

I had this same problem, how do you connect the two computers? is it a crossover cable? or a router or hud or switch?

I used a crossover cble and had this problem, so i got a Router, and no problems ever again

i am using Router DI-604
but i do not think its routers fault.

What have you done about it?
Please someone ?

I also got a new Network card for my computer, but i'm not sure if that solved the problem

but the problem is on my Network, it's sending Packet 10,000 and much more all the time, but it's not Recived Packet: 3
what should i do about this :( ?

Some ideas are to:

1. If you have a firewall program installed try configuring it to detect the network (the program on both computers will need to be configured). The idea is to add network zones (usually in some kind of trusted zone) and have an IP range added from 192.168.0.0 to 192.168.0.255.
2. If that doesn't work try deleting the network on both computers and resetup the network through network connections.
3. If Windows complains of can't delete the network, then just disable it on both computers and reset it up.

Are you both on XP?