Let me give you some advice
Programming for a database all depends on the database that you plan to use..
If you plan on having just a small database use access its easy to control and has no problems setting up odbc connection to run from 98 or NT....
Also If you a first learning to programmer for a database i suggest using a Jet databar it is easy to program and will set up its self very easily...
If you want some help setting up a odbc connection to a access database or an oracle database drop me a line... I can send you a sample project using sevral methods.
hope this helps
Brooke