OCX-Problem

Scenario:
I´ve developed an ActiveX control that contains a toolbar and DHTMLEdit control. A button on the toolbar opens a dialog for inserting tables.

Problem:
I can´t reference the DHTMLEdit control with the tableproperties because it can´t be found from the dialog. Why??? Is there someway to communicate between a form inside an ocx and the usercontrol?

Solution:
Please Somebody...