Calendar control

I know must of us are new to this .NET stuff. I certainly am, but happy playing around with. I came across the Calendar control and I like it, its going to be useful for the application I'm going to be doing. I've managed to get most of it sorted out apart from a few things.

I want to be able to change the color of the selected date and the Header bar. I know it has certain style properties such as DayHeaderStyle, but how do I go about setting them.

Also does anyone know the full list of this style properties?