menu question

I make a menu appear with this code:

Code:

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    menu.LoadMenu(IDR_TRAYMENU);
    menu.GetSubMenu(0)->TrackPopupMenu(TPM_RIGHTALIGN | TPM_LEFTBUTTON,pt.x,pt.y ,AfxGetMainWnd());

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but If I check the popupmenu from MSN messenger, that menu 'reappears' every time you click the icon. my menu doesn't? how can I make this happen??

I'm using MFC

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