Focus On Multi Forms

I have multipul forms around a main form. All the forms have title bars. Is there a way to keep the title bars from going grey when they do not have focus??

Thanks

you could do it by changing the window style to ownerdrawn using the SetWindowLong API then subclassing the wm_drawitem
message and drawing the frame, and title bar yourself but it seems a bit silly, what's wrong with grey titlebar's anyway, it's how every other windows application does it, otherwise it wouldn't be so hard.