Need help visualizing OLE containers..PLZ!!!! READ!!!

Ok, i really need help with this.

I have an OLE object containing a MIDI file.
I have 4 possible verbs(actions) that i can do with it:

-Read
-Read(its there twice)
-Edit
-Open

I use read to start the MIDI file... it plays and i'm very happy about that part :D

This is how i do it:

oleToTown.DoVerb 0

there aren't any verbs to stop the midi file on exit.
I tried oleToTown.Close and lots of other stuff but nothing stops it from playing.

P.S. I know OLE are containers and when i activate the midi file, it calls the MIDI player to produce the sound. The thing i don't know, is how to access that player from the vb code to stop the player.

Thanks for reading