Drag it onto your form.
Name if AxFlash
in your program...
AxFlash.Movie="your file name.swf")
If you just can't find the control, there are several sections in your tool bar, look in all of them. Plus, in the WindowsForms section of the tool bar, if the control is at the end, you will have to scroll down to see it.
the setvariable example I have shown will take the text value of Textbox1 and set it to whatever variable you want defined in the code. you can combine multiple textboxes for development if needed(always helps me)
variables can be retrieved and set in many ways
or just as
variable1 (gets from _root.)
so if you have a movieclip(menu) within a movieclip(maincontent) and the variable on the menu mc is button1val
right click on toolbox item then select choose items then select com components then search for shockwave flash object after selection drag it on ur form next plcae ur flash file in project folder bin\debug next
then select timer enable it then double click on timer and paste this code
AxShockwaveFlash1.Movie = Application.StartupPath & "\PLAY\ur flash file name here .swf"