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+1 to both of the above and thank you both for saying it.

I get that it's frustrating when people come on here asking for a hand out but the correct response is simply to not help them or, if...

I don't think I've seen the thread in question so I can't comment on the specifics but I'd like to endorse this:-
... or as our Mums hopefully taught us all: "If you can't think of something nice to...