[2.0] problems with setting Parent & displaying icons

[bushmobile]

two questions:

firstly, I'm adding a form to a panel to a panel using the following code:

Form frm = new Form2();
frm.TopLevel = false;
frm.Parent = panel1;
frm.Show();

but Form2 is never activated and the non-client area is never drawn as active either. is there an easy solution?

secondly, I've added images to my toolbar buttons, which display in the designer, but not when i run the code...

the attached image shows both problems - and I'm very much noobing it with C# at the moment, so be easy on me!