Here's a nice little control, that has the 4 most common database buttons on it - Add, Delete, Find and Save.

Note: it doesnt have any Data access capabilities, think of it as 4 command buttons in a row. Looks nice though. (lights up when you click it!).

I don't care if you think its pathetic, because its my first go at an OCX

d/l it here:
http://www.castleftarc.com/images/dbbuttons.zip

there is a readme file inside the zip.